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I am constantly surprised when people say I write erotica! It continues to amaze me because I thought I was just writing about real life! I mean isn’t sex a part of real life?

So when I get labelled like this, it makes me wonder… Why is it so screwy to write about our sex lives?

As you probably know, I wrote a book called “Good Pussy Bad Pussy – Rachel’s Tale” in which I attempt to follow the beautiful and naive Rachel in her dangerous endeavor to be free, follow her heart and satisfy her pussy – all at the same time! When I was writing the book, I considered it to be literary fiction. And I still do.

However…after the book came out, I discovered something really interesting! I realized that many people were, and are, calling the book “erotica” or “erotic fiction” or “xxx-rated fiction”. And I found out that this is how many, or maybe most, people frame this book and the work I am doing. Which I find really interesting – mainly because as I said, I didn’t think of any of these things when I was actually writing “Good Pussy Bad Pussy”. I didn’t have any of these labels in my head. I just thought I was writing a book about a woman who was exploring life and relationships and her sexuality. And I was doing it because I find the subject fascinating and also because I feel that our sexuality is just a normal part of our everyday lives. So I didn’t put what I was writing into any special category.

But then I discovered that other people do – and I thought “What’s going on here? Why all the labels? As far as I am concerned, my book is literary fiction!”

Then something more happened: As part of my marketing plan to promote the book when it came out, I hired a tweet service to tweet about the book every day. Quite a few people responded to the tweets by saying “Good Pussy Bad Pussy” was the best book title ever! But then the tweet service suddenly said they’d been the victim of a vicious cyber attack on their site because of the book title and refused to tweet the book title anymore. And I thought “Wow! This is really amazing. Censorship of my book on social media because of the title!” And then I realized I should be proud because I had joined the illustrious group of writers like Henry Miller and D.H. Lawrence whose groundbreaking works of literature had been banned!

So how did this matter end? Today the tweet service will only tweet about the book using an abbreviated title “GPBP – Rachel’s Tale”. When I told a friend that “Good Pussy Bad Pussy” had been censored to #GPBP, he said “I’m proud of you. It really takes some doing nowadays to have a work of literature censored.”

So what’s all the hullabaloo about anyway? When you think about it, not only is sex completely normal and natural, sex and our sexuality is probably the strongest human drive of all. So as far as I’m concerned, the real question is not whether or not what I write is so-called “erotica” but why we categorize and separate sex like we do from the rest of our lives? I recently read that Timothy Clark, curator at the British Museum Shunga exhibition, said in an interview about the museum’s latest exhibition of Japanese erotic art: “The division between art and obscene pornography is a Western concept. There was no sense in Japan that sex or sexual pleasure was sinful.” Now isn’t that interesting? Interesting to notice that not everyone in the world has the same belief systems about sex as so many of us have here in the West.

And yes, we certainly have a lot more sexual and artistic freedom here in the West than ever before. No doubt about that. And we should be eternally grateful for that. But obviously… we still have a long way to go…

 

When I made love to Stefan. I knew it in my heart… I knew and understood that I had gone to a space beyond good pussy bad pussy… gone to a space beyond… because…

Real Love is unconditional.

Real Love is beyond borders.

Real Love is beyond names.

Real Love is Universal, all embracing, free.

Real Love is free flowing. Free flowing love.

Real Love is liberation.

Liberation from bondage.

Liberation from the prison of ideas.

Liberation from pain.

Liberation. Into the flow of Life.

Feeling the free-flowing Life Force.

Love!

And there I was, feeling it again.

Feeling the Love coursing through my veins… in and through me!

Alive! Moving! Breathing! Alive!

No ownership, no yours or mine, no this or that.

Just free and unlimited, free and unlimited Bliss.

Beyond the cage of words, beyond limitation, beyond good or bad.

Beyond you belong to me and I belong to you.

Beyond good pussy bad pussy… beyond…

A Divine Knowing, a Divine Certainty…

That this is Love… Love! Unconditional Love!

The free flowing of Life.

The free expression of Life.

The free movement of it in and through me.

The bliss of that, the joy of that, the present moment awareness of that…

LOVE!

FREEDOM!

FREE!

Even if only for a little while…

 

When voice artist Tim Spencer contacted me and asked me if he could try his hand – or should I say his voice – on my book “Good Pussy Bad Pussy” – I thought: What – a man reading the innermost thoughts of a woman??? Could that work? But then on second thought – I thought: Well I’m not a reverse sexist and I am working for more sexual freedom and equality for all – so why not let a man give it a try? Man or woman, we all have thoughts and emotions relating to our sexuality and the situations our sexual drive and desires get us into!

So I said yes to Tim! And well, the result is lovely indeed – as you can hear if you have a listen. Because Tim has such an amazing, lovely, rich, full sexy voice. So just click here to hear him read the first 10 minutes of “Good Pussy Bad Pussy”: http://www.spreaker.com/user/adultaudioden/goodpussybadpussy-tspencer-audio-excerpt_1

Tim also interviewed me about “Good Pussy Bad Pussy” and posted our chat on his Web site here: http://adultaudiodvr.wix.com/adultaudioden#!interviews/ckqh

When I asked Tim to tell me a little about himself, here’s what he said: “In my travels I have experienced everything from the incredible frozen tundra of Alaska to the warm, sunny beaches of St. Lucia. At every locale, my experiences with the women I came to know in these exotic spots revealed a little more to me about how to make a woman happy and keep her satisfied. Something they all would comment about was how they enjoyed my voice during pillow talk. Since then I have gained a lot of experience as a professional voice artist and now my wife, who loves it when I read erotica to her, urges me to share this (my pillow talk voice) with the world. In doing so, my main thrust is to enhance eroticism in the lives of adventurous lovers.”

All I can say is I’m so happy Tim’s wife has encouraged him to share his sexy pillow talk voice with the world!

I’d like you to meet my friend Guy Hogan – a really cool guy who loves women and sex – and who’s got this amazing Web site called Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette, which he calls his “little girlie magazine.” You can find it and enjoy it here: http://pittsburghflashfictiongazette.net/

The thing I love about Guy is that he’s into creating and promoting sex as art and entertainment! So when I sent him my book “Good Pussy Bad Pussy”, it turned out that Guy and I were a really good match because he says my book is a “perfect example of sex as art and entertainment.”  When he said that I thought – Hallelujah – here is someone who really gets it!

Guy liked “Good Pussy Bad Pussy” so much that he interviewed me about the book and you can read his interview with me here: http://pittsburghflashfictiongazette.net/i-write-erotica-amy-aimee/

But now I’ve turned the tables on him and decided to write about him!

So I asked Guy why he loves what he’s doing so much. And well, if you check out his site, you will see it’s obvious he loves what he’s doing. There’s just this nice, passionate feeling about the site and you kind of can’t help but fall for his commitment to making us ladies happy. Or anyway, I did…

Here’s what Guy answered when I asked him why he loves what he’s doing so much:

  “When Andy Warhol was asked why he did pop art (I saw the interview on YouTube) he answered, “It gives me something to do.”

 The Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette gives me something to do.  I’m a Vietnam War veteran.  I’m retired.  I’m a life-long bachelor with no children.  I need something to do.

 But at this stage of my life I want to be passionate about what I do.  I’ve been passionate about writing since high school.  Blogging allows me to indulge my passion for writing.

 The Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette is considered a “porn site.”  That’s why I had to move it to a platform that allowed porn sites.  I was shut down twice before I learned this bitter lesson.  I lost over four years of content and had to start all over again.  The present PFFG is less than two years old.

 And since the PFFG is considered a porn site, that makes me a pornographer.  To my way of thinking, I think it’s cool to be a pornographer at my age.

 Finally, I think I’m doing something original.  As far as I can tell there is nothing like my little girlie magazine on the Internet with its special blend of sex as art and entertainment.

 These are the reasons why I love being the editor, publisher of Pittsburgh’s #1 girlie magazine of erotic flash fiction, nude female celebrities and the best gangbang stories on the Internet.”

In case you’re wondering, Guy received his BA from the University of Pittsburgh in 2003. He got an award and was able to go to Graduate School at the University of Pittsburgh where he got an MFA in fiction writing in 2006.

The other thing I love about Guy is his take on writing flash fiction. He says: the best sex stories are really character studies, are really about relationships.

“The gangbang stories that I’ve written have evolved into some of the best character studies that I’ve ever written over a 40-plus-year career as a writer of mainstream, literary and erotic fiction.  The gangbang stories of this girlie magazine are very popular with my readers.  And the gangbang stories have reaffirmed my faith that the best sex stories are really character studies, are really about relationships.”

He says all his gangbang stories are “about the woman’s orgasm, the more the merrier, and not about the men’s orgasms. Every woman who gets gangbanged enjoys herself, no matter what circumstances have brought her to this fateful decision in her life!”

All I can say is Amen to that!  The man’s really got it nailed. So go and take a look at his site and enjoy all the lovely stuff he’s got to offer!

Thanks Guy and keep up the good work!

 

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I’m thrilled and honored that the lovely and amazing Annie Edmonds nominated me (yes MOI!) for the Bad Girl Blogger award. If you want to check out Annie and her amazing blog called Sex w / Annie – Let’s Talk About Sex! You can find her here: http://sexwannie.wordpress.com/2014/11/26/im-a-bad-girl-but-in-a-good-way/

But back to Annie and her nominating me… This is just way beyond cool – to think that my humble efforts at celebrating our sexuality and sexual freedom are being appreciated by others! Because that has been and still is my goal – for all of us to celebrate and revel in the wonder of our sexuality and to bless and praise it in ourselves and others.

I love that when nominating me, Annie said: “A. Aimee is a modern woman who just gets it. And by “It” I mean Sex! She’s an author who writes openly about women’s issues.”

I’m also so thrilled that my book “Good Pussy Bad Pussy – Rachel’s Tale” is being read and loved by so many. And right now, I’m putting the finishing touches on another Good Pussy Bad Pussy book – the new one is called “Good Pussy Bad Pussy in Captivity” and will be coming soon to a galaxy near you!

Stay tuned and thanks friends for all your love and support! Here’s to sexual freedom for all!!

What would you really like to read about? If you’re anything like me then the answer is probably the same as what you’d really like to live.

A life full of… Amazing sex. Amazing people. Amazing adventures!

We want that high-flying feeling, right? That’s what I’m looking for! What about you???

That’s also why I wrote Good Pussy Bad Pussy – trying to find the essence of that.

 

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