Jon Pressick at Sex-in-Words asked me why I wrote “Good Pussy Bad Pussy”. I started my answer by saying:
I wanted to write about orgasm as a portal to ecstasy and the death of the ego. I wanted to write about how great sex is a portal into the flow state where we experience timeless awareness and the ecstatic feeling of being fully present in this now moment. I wanted to write about orgasm as the ultimate surrender which leads to the amazing blissfulness which each of us experience when we are finally, finally able to let go completely. And then I wanted to add to this an exploration of the conundrum that arises if we have reached this blissful state of complete surrender in and through situations (and/or with people) that we don’t particularly like or find acceptable.
And I also wanted to write about a woman who allowed herself to go beyond what is normally acceptable for married women and who discovered and experienced amazing orgasmic release in ways which both shocked and surprised her. In other words, a story about a woman who discovered that her body could respond in one way even if her mind was screaming something else. Hence the title – Good Pussy Bad Pussy!
You can read the whole interview here:
http://sexinwords.ca/2014/02/what-do-you-do-with-a-good-pussy-bad-pussy/
Good Pussy Bad Pussy 
“For women, sexual response involves entering an altered state of consciousness.” ~ Naomi Wolf
It’s something that fascinates me too. 🙂
Yes it fascinates me too. (& nice to meet you too)
Nice to meet you too.:)
Unfortunately your interview link doesn’t work. Is there any other way of reading it?
I think I need to read your book though.
My blog deals with something similar. Transcendence through submission and sex. It’s not just the orgasm … it’s everything that leads up to it.Including surrender. And BDSM.
Thank you for this
Thanks for letting me know about the link. I forgot to update it when he moved his site. Here is the correct link. http://sexinwords.ca/2014/02/what-do-you-do-with-a-good-pussy-bad-pussy/
I checked out your blog – it’s awesome – well done! Maybe we could exchange posts! I could feature you one day and you can feature me… what do you think?
Also I would love to have you read and write about my book. I’d be happy to send it to you if you would like to read it. Just let me know. You are awesome xx